First Lady of the United States from 1842 to 1844
Elizabeth Priscilla Cooper Tyler
(June 14, 1816 ? December 29, 1889) was the official White House hostess and
first lady of the United States
from 1841 to 1844. She was the daughter-in-law of then-president
John Tyler
through her marriage to his son
Robert Tyler
. She assumed the first lady's responsibilities at the beginning of the Tyler administration, working in the stead of her mother-in-law, first lady
Letitia Christian Tyler
, who was too ill to do so herself. After Letitia Tyler's death in September 1842, Priscilla Tyler was effectively the first lady, overseeing social affairs in the White House.
Tyler was previously an unsuccessful actress. Her marriage inserted her into the political life of the Tyler family. Balancing the national spotlight with new motherhood, Tyler was widely celebrated as a hostess and recognized as a highlight of what was otherwise a controversial presidency. She managed several receptions, dinners, and other events each week, sometimes bringing her to the point of exhaustion. Tyler left the White House as the president prepared for remarriage, and she settled in Philadelphia. Siding with the
Confederate States of America
during the
American Civil War
, Tyler and her husband moved to the
Southern United States
. Tyler lived in relative obscurity in
Montgomery, Alabama
, until her death in 1889.
Early life
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Elizabeth Priscilla Cooper
[1]
was born on June 14, 1816, in
New York City
,
[1]
the third of her parents' nine children.
[2]
: 124
Her father,
Thomas Abthorpe Cooper
, was a successful stage actor and producer. Her mother, Mary Fairlie Cooper, was a New York
socialite
.
[1]
Her parents were of considerably different social classes, with the marriage causing outrage among her mother's family.
[2]
: 124
Cooper's maternal grandfather, James Fairlie, was a veteran of the
American Revolutionary War
.
[1]
Cooper's mother died in 1833, and her father's handling of money created financial problems for the family,
[1]
particularly due to his gambling.
[2]
: 124
She began to work as an actress at the age of 17
[3]
when she appeared in
Virginius
alongside her father.
[1]
It was not well-received.
[2]
: 124
She acted alongside her father from 1835 to 1838,
[4]
: 389
traveling the
East Coast
to perform in various plays.
[2]
: 124
The Cooper family was well-off until the
Panic of 1837
,
[3]
which plunged the family into poverty.
[5]
[6]
: 113
While playing
Desdemona
in a production of
Othello
in
Richmond, Virginia
, she met
Robert Tyler
, the eldest son of wealthy plantation owner and former
US Senator
John Tyler
.
[3]
[6]
: 113
One anecdote suggests that after she walked on stage, he was so taken by her that he remained standing after the rest of the audience had sat down.
[1]
[2]
: 125
They began a courtship when he went backstage to meet her immediately after the play. In 19th century America, actresses had little social standing, and the addition of the Coopers' financial woes seemed to conspire to make any match between the two unlikely.
[1]
Despite this, Tyler proposed to her six times over the course of their courtship before they were eventually wed.
[2]
: 125
Marriage
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Cooper married Tyler in
Bristol, Virginia
,
[2]
: 125
on September 12, 1839.
[4]
: 389
After their wedding, the couple moved to
Williamsburg, Virginia
, to live with Robert's family. John and
Letitia Tyler
warmly welcomed her into the Tyler family. Priscilla Tyler grew close to her father-in-law. He even allowed her to open an account in every store in Williamsburg, but she stopped accepting such favors from the Tylers when she realized that they were poorer than they seemed.
[1]
She was also close to her mother-in-law, Letitia Tyler,
[4]
: 59
who had expressed great pleasure at the idea of their marriage.
[6]
: 113
Despite this comradery, Tyler felt constrained living with her in-laws, worried that it was preventing her husband from establishing a career of his own.
[1]
She attempted to help him with a burgeoning legal career by helping him prepare speeches and case material.
[2]
: 125
Priscilla's father was less pleased with the marriage, as he was loyal to the
Democratic Party
and vehemently opposed the
Whig Party
that John Tyler represented.
[2]
: 126
John Tyler was the successful candidate for
Vice President of the United States
in the
1840 election
. Priscilla Tyler hoped that this would end the control that he exerted over Robert's career and would bring independence for her and her husband. After the sudden death of President
William Henry Harrison
a month into his term, John Tyler became President of the United States, and she accompanied the Tyler family to
Washington, D.C.
[1]
White House hostess
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Adopting the role
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By the time John Tyler assumed the presidency in 1841, his wife Letitia was not physically fit to serve as the White House hostess, so the responsibility was delegated to Priscilla Tyler.
[1]
: 60
[5]
At only 25 years old, her youth was considered a benefit,
[7]
and her experience in entertainment also served her in this capacity.
[1]
[6]
: 114
She was delighted with the opportunity to host at the White House.
[7]
On multiple occasions, she expressed shock at the fact that she was presiding over the White House and boasted to her friends about the role.
[1]
As a hostess, Tyler was highly regarded by most contemporaries, both in the United States and abroad.
[1]
[7]
She worked with former first lady
Dolley Madison
and Secretary of State
Daniel Webster
to better prepare for her position.
[4]
: 389
Tyler disliked the practice of returning social calls, but she did so on Madison's advice, doing what she described as "three days a week... three hours a day driving from one street to another in this city of magnificent distances".
[4]
: 389
The challenges of Tyler's role were compounded by the fact that she was a new mother. Her first child had been born just months before she arrived at the White House, and she had her second child during her tenure.
[1]
As she was suddenly thrust into the role, she was forced to learn how to navigate Washington social life despite increasing
political polarization
.
[8]
This polarization only added to the importance of Tyler's role, as her management of social affairs in the White House worked to counteract what was otherwise a period of severe hostility. The levity she created in the White House provided the president with political advantages, allowing him to better gauge and interact with prominent Washington figures across the political spectrum. Even the president's greatest critics spoke positively of the White House's social environment.
[1]
In September 1842, Letitia Tyler's health declined considerably, and it became apparent that she was dying. Priscilla Tyler was in New York at the time. Robert rushed to New York to return Priscilla to the White House, but they did not arrive until after Letitia's death.
[6]
: 115
Tyler's status as a surrogate or "proxy" hostess reflected a common occurrence in the antebellum years, in which younger female family members stood in for the wives of presidents. Due to her more prominent role in the White House, Tyler's tenure as surrogate first lady in particular has become more prominent in historical analysis than that of Letitia Tyler.
[8]
Social events
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Tyler hosted her first event a month into her father-in-law's administration. Her first duty as first lady was especially important, as it represented a return to normal after Harrison's death. Even more so, it was to set the tone for a new presidency that many challenged as illegitimate, as the
constitution
offered little guidance for
presidential succession
at the time.
[1]
The pressure of organizing such an event, combined with the stress of caring for her first newborn and being pregnant with her second, caused her to faint as dessert was being served.
[2]
: 174?175
After being caught and carried away by Secretary of State Daniel Webster, a man known for his promiscuity, her husband brought further attention to the scene by chasing after them and dumping a pitcher of water atop them.
[1]
The incident was not repeated for the rest of her tenure, and all of her social events thereafter went uninterrupted.
[2]
: 175
Tyler ensured that social events were held regularly at the White House while she was responsible for hosting. She held small dinners two times per week while Congress was in session;
[9]
one for visitors to the city, and one for government officials.
[4]
: 389
[6]
: 114
She also held biweekly public receptions, as well as larger parties with approximately one thousand guests each month.
[6]
: 114
[9]
Tyler became the first first lady to travel with a presidential party in June 1843, when she accompanied the president to
Boston
to dedicate the Bunker Hill Monument.
[3]
In March 1842, while seven months pregnant, Tyler was responsible for hosting a party in honor of
Washington Irving
and
Charles Dickens
,
[10]
an occasion that brought about 3,000 people to the White House.
[1]
One personal influence that Tyler had on Washington was the introduction of concerts by the
United States Marine Band
on the south lawn of the White House.
[9]
In early 1843, Tyler was given charge of the White House while the president visited Virginia. During this time,
Henri Gatien Bertrand
requested a visit to the White House, and Tyler found herself hosting him with only an hour's warning. No one questioned her authority when she summoned the entire presidential cabinet to greet Bertrand and organized a dinner in his honor. Tyler then convinced him to return two days later so that she could organize a party in his honor. This was a gesture that deeply affected him.
[1]
Later life and death
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Robert and Priscilla Tyler left the White House for
Philadelphia
in March 1844, knowing that
Julia Gardiner Tyler
was set to marry the president and become the new White House hostess.
[1]
President Tyler's daughter,
Letitia Tyler-Semple
, saw to White House social affairs until the wedding.
[4]
: 389?390
After leaving the White House, the Tylers moved to Philadelphia where Robert Tyler began a legal career. Robert briefly returned to Washington to help his father in an ill-fated reelection attempt, which Priscilla considered an "interruption" in their lives. Together Robert and Priscilla Tyler had nine children, only six of whom would live to adulthood.
[1]
Robert's advancing career allowed them a period of financial comfort,
[2]
: 318?319
and they lived in Philadelphia until the onset of the
American Civil War
. When the Civil War broke out in 1861, the Tylers moved to Virginia, where Robert was register of the Confederate Treasury.
[3]
After the war, Robert became the editor of the
Mail and Advertiser
newspaper in
Montgomery, Alabama
.
[3]
Tyler disliked Montgomery due to the high population of
African-Americans
, and the Tylers became involved in Democratic politics to enforce
white supremacy
in Alabama.
[2]
: 517
The family struggled financially for the rest of their lives.
[1]
Tyler stayed in Montgomery after her husband's death in 1877, remaining there until her own death on December 29, 1889.
[3]
The personal papers of the Tyler family, including those of Priscilla Cooper Tyler, are held by the
Special Collections Research Center
at the
College of William and Mary
.
[11]
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