Latvian psychoanalyst, psychiatrist and psychologist (1894?1982)
Alexandra von Wolff-Stomersee
Alexandra Tomasi, Princess of Lampedusa
(nee Alexandra von Wolff-Stomersee) (13 November 1894 in
Nice
? 22 June 1982 in
Palermo
),
[1]
known as "Licy",
[2]
was an Italian and
Baltic German
psychoanalyst
.
[3]
She was the daughter of Italian mezzo-soprano and violinist
Alice Barbi
[3]
(1858-1948
[4]
) and Baron
Boris Wolff-Stomersee
[
ru
]
[3]
(1850?1917
[5]
).
Raised in
St. Petersburg
, where her father was a high official in the court of
Imperial Russia
,
[3]
in 1918 she married the
Baltic German
Baron Andre Pilar von Pilchau (1891?1960), an international banker.
[3]
Pilar was gay, and the nature of the marriage is unclear.
[2]
In the early 1920s she underwent
psychoanalysis
in
Berlin
with
Felix Boehm
, another Baltic German from Riga.
[3]
Over the next several years she traveled between her residence in
Latvia
(Stomersee,
[2]
now known as
St?meriena Palace
) and Berlin, where she studied psychoanalysis at the
Berlin Psychoanalytic Institute
.
[3]
As a psychoanalyst, she was in the tradition of
Karl Abraham
.
[3]
Meanwhile, her mother had remarried, to
Pietro Tomasi Della Torretta
, who was Italian ambassador to the UK from 1922 to 1927.
[6]
On a 1925 visit to London, Alexandra met Tomasi's nephew,
Giuseppe Tomasi di Lampedusa
, later author of
The Leopard
. The two met at various places in Europe over the next few years.
[7]
In 1932, she obtained a divorce/annulment of her marriage to Pilar
[8]
and married Tomasi di Lampedusa.
[3]
[9]
She, Pilar, and Tomasi all seem to have been on quite friendly terms throughout, and apparently scandalized some of Tomasi's relatives by remaining so.
[10]
Tomasi did not tell his family about the marriage until it was a
fait accompli
.
[11]
They first lived with Tomasi's mother at the Lampedusa Palace in Palermo, but the incompatibility between the two women soon drove her back to Latvia.
[12]
[13]
Through the rest of the 1930s, Tomasi lived largely in Palermo and she variously in Riga or Stomersee; typically she made an annual winter visit to Palermo and he made a summer visit to the Baltic.
[14]
She began practicing psychoanalysis in 1936.
[1]
The vicissitudes of World War II finally drove her from the Baltic to Rome
[3]
(where her sister Lolette lived
[15]
) and finally to Sicily. For the duration of the war in Italy, she and Tomasi lived mainly in
Ficarra
, sometimes with his mother, sometimes not. After the war (and the destruction of the Lampedusa Palace) the couple rented a place in Palermo.
[16]
Her mother-in-law died in 1946, after which she and her husband consistently lived together
[17]
until his death in 1957.
[3]
She was instrumental in the reorganisation of the Italian psychoanalytic society (SPI) after
World War II
and was the president of the SPI from 1954 to 1959.
[1]
She was one of post-war Italy's first
training analysts
(based in Palermo);
Francesco Corrao
[
it
]
was one of her students. She served on the editorial board of the
Rivista di Psicoanalisi,
established in 1955
[3]
Her 1946 lecture
"Sviluppi della diagnostica e tecnica psicoanalitica"
("Developments in psychoanalytic diagnostics and technique") introduced the concept of
borderline personality disorder
. Her 1950 lecture at the Second National Congress of the SPI,
"L'aggressivita nelle perversioni"
("Aggression in perversions") built on the Freudian concept of the
death drive
; in that lecture, she developed the theoretical foundation of aggressive
narcissism
, based on a case of
necrophilia
. In the early 1970s, she presented a talk about a patient of hers who thought he was a
werewolf
. This talk introduced the term "identificatory
introjection
" based on
Melanie Klein
's concept of "
projective identification
". She continued her private practice into her later years, as well seeing her late husband's works through to publication.
[3]
She died in 1982 in Palermo.
[1]
References
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a
b
c
d
"Alessandra Wolff Stomersee Tomasi di Palma, princess of Lampedusa"
.
ASPI ? Archivio Storico della psicologia italiana
(in Italian). University of Milano-Bicocca
. Retrieved
2023-06-30
.
- ^
a
b
c
Gilmour, David
(1988).
The Last Leopard: A life of Giuseppe Tomasi di Lampedusa
. New York: Pantheon. p. 60.
ISBN
0679401830
.
- ^
a
b
c
d
e
f
g
h
i
j
k
l
m
Brigitte Nolleke.
"Psychoanalytikerinnen. Biografisches Lexikon"
(in German)
. Retrieved
2023-06-30
.
- ^
Commire, Anne, ed. (2002). "Barbi, Alice (1862?1948)".
Women in World History: A Biographical Encyclopedia
. Waterford, Connecticut: Yorkin Publications.
ISBN
0-7876-4074-3
. Archived from
the original
on 2016-09-11 – via HighBeam Research.
- ^
"Wolff, Boris Frh. v. (1850?1917)"
.
BBLd ? Baltisches Biografisches Lexikon digital
. Baltische Historische Kommission (BHK)
. Retrieved
2023-05-30
.
- ^
Gilmour,
op. cit.
, pp. 46, 59
- ^
Gilmour, pp. 33
- ^
Gilmour,
op cit.
, p. 61 refers to the dissolution as a "divorce and annulment."
- ^
Gilmour,
op cit.
, p. 61
- ^
Gilmour,
op. cit
, pp. 60, 64, 69?70, 98?99, 104
- ^
Gilmour,
op. cit
, pp. 61, 63, 66
- ^
Alessandra Tomasi di Lampedusa
at psychoanalytikerinnen.de
- ^
Gilmour,
op. cit
, pp. 67?68
- ^
Gilmour,
op. cit
, pp. 69
- ^
Gilmour,
op. cit
, pp. 103
- ^
Gilmour,
op. cit
, p. 83
- ^
Gilmour,
op. cit
, pp. 86
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